okay so i have this friend named Kaziah and a friend named darian
i knew kaziah since preschool and one day she left and i never knew what happened to her.
so now she came back! she is so beautiful now! but my friend darian steals her from me! she actually took her and made her sit with her. so we are done(me and darian) but kaziah has become a traitor!.
when i was sick all she did was say "get well soon" and when darian got sick she put a teddy bear in her lockeR! I AM SOOOOO SAd! but ihave had talks with her about it but she really doesn't care. i said it hurts me alot that you pay no attention to me. and she goes well me and her have so much fun i dnt realize i hurt people. she was acting so dumb i just walked away. i really need advicE!

You havent even seen her since preschool. Both of you grew up and developed your own personalities that just dont mesh.
I had a best friend in preschool/elementary school and she even lived down the street from me. But towards the end of middle school we just were different and not good friends anymore. We don't hate each other (it doesn't sound like she hates you) but we aren't close enough that she would do something sweet/really nice for me when I'm sick like my now best friend would.
You both have changed and neither of you can do anything about that.

you are over reacting. first of all you cant considered her your best friend if you havent seen her in years. second, your friend is allowed to be friends with her too. you cant expect her to treat you special just because you knew her first. chances are they have just clicked and gotten close.

The same thing happened to me (only i was the one who left) When I came back i realied that we both changed in the past 7 years and we can't do anything about it.

Just be the best friend you can...and if she isn't a friend back then at least you know you've done your best and she is the one missing out...

i am not over reacting. if you felt like this you would know. and i havent posted anything ignorant yet of what she did. -tinywrist

first of all i didnt even mention the word ignorant. second everyone else said basically the exact same thing i did.

i never said you said ignorant. i said i havent posted all the ignorant things she has done.

i had a friend since before pre-school but
then she moved away to reno
after she came back i realized we had different personalities
i think u should try to get along with her and maybe talk to her about what u feel

First of all.
You cant "steal" a person. shes free to talk to him if she wants to.

My friend is that same way. But we all go through stages in life and I believe that is all it is. JUst a stage and she doesnt realize that she is hurting other people. It will be over with soon. It should be at least!