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Guest Guest
 | Subject: Purity Rings Sat Nov 14, 2009 9:45 am | |
| I don't personally have one, but i know friends who do. I have different opnions on them. Some people think like you just can't have intercourse. I personally think oral sex should count for it. Just because it is a sexual activity too. What are your opinions on it? |
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TieDyeSunshine Member

Posts: 479
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Sat Nov 14, 2009 4:45 pm | |
| Well I don't have one, but I agree with you. I'm not saying that I'm necessarily waiting until marriage, but I think that the whole point of a purity ring is defeated if you say that only intercourse "counts" for it. If you truly believe in waiting, or staying "pure" then I don't think there should be exceptions like that. |
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Guest Guest
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Sat Nov 14, 2009 4:51 pm | |
| I don't really see the point in them.. like it's a nice idea and if you have one, then thats cool by me, but surely you know yourself if you're "pure"/going to stay "pure", and so i don't really see the point in a ring, but whatever.
In the same way, i think they can symbolise whatever you want.
I also dislike the word "purity". I can see why it could be considered relevant. I dislike the idea of condemning many people as "unpure" though. Although i know thats not the point, and noones saying that, it just sort of seems like a side effect to me. |
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TieDyeSunshine Member

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 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Sat Nov 14, 2009 5:14 pm | |
| | Summer. wrote: | | I dislike the idea of condemning many people as "unpure" though. Although i know thats not the point, and noones saying that, it just sort of seems like a side effect to me. |
I feel the exact same way. That's why I put the word "pure" in quotations haha. |
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Guest Guest
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:15 am | |
| I have one, but I don't wear it. Like Summer said, people shouldn't need a ring to tell them when to stop or remind them that they promised. I know how far I'm willing to go. |
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Guest Guest
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Mon Nov 16, 2009 5:41 pm | |
| Like yeah i agree, but i think if you have one and wear one, and like have oral it completly defeats the point of even having one. |
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Guest Guest
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Mon Nov 16, 2009 8:17 pm | |
| Not really, I mean I know when you get one you're supposed to abstain from all sexual activity, but if you only promise yourself to abstain from actual intercourse, I don't see a problem with oral. |
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Guest Guest
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Mon Nov 16, 2009 9:19 pm | |
| Idk I really think it does. Only because it is another form of "sex" I guess you can say. So I just believe like if you practice using a Purity ring you would probably want to stay "pure" from oral too. I guess its really just a opinion for everyone. |
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Guest Guest
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Mon Nov 16, 2009 9:48 pm | |
| Yeah I get what you're saying. |
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Guest Guest
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Tue Nov 17, 2009 2:50 am | |
| I think it depends on your definition of pure. |
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StarDust Member

Posts: 981
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:17 pm | |
| I don't have one. I don't really want to get one, though. 'Cause I don't really like to wear rings! |
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beaucoeur Newbie

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 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Fri Apr 16, 2010 8:21 pm | |
| I don't have one, but I am making that promise to myself to stay pure. |
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summit Member

Posts: 125
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Fri Sep 24, 2010 11:41 pm | |
| I honestly think they are pointless. You dont need an object to symbolise a moral belief, you just need to have the belief. |
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glitzy-glam Member

Posts: 244
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Sat Sep 25, 2010 9:11 am | |
| I think that sometimes having a purity ring can lead to the person wanting to have sex and rushing into marriage at an early age. I get what their for and I'm not against that it just that it seems kinda like more of a get-married-really-fast-so-I-can-get-this-annoying-ring-off-my-finger. |
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i.am.killer Member

Posts: 332
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Sun Sep 26, 2010 8:10 am | |
| | glitzy-glam wrote: | | I think that sometimes having a purity ring can lead to the person wanting to have sex and rushing into marriage at an early age. I get what their for and I'm not against that it just that it seems kinda like more of a get-married-really-fast-so-I-can-get-this-annoying-ring-off-my-finger. |
I don't see that at all |
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summit Member

Posts: 125
 | Subject: Re: Purity Rings Sun Sep 26, 2010 10:16 am | |
| I see it as an excuse to be pertentious and arrogant. |
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